What comes first "Lust" or "Love"?

Lust or Love, that is the question. A lot of people tend to forget that the word "Lust" does exist in the dictionary and yes it ca be used. Another word for lust is desire. You desire to be with someone, get to know them by spending time then you fall in Love. It is the people who are in denial of the word Lust that end up hurt and say Love is over rated, well for your information Love is a process. How you mix your ingredients determines the end results, so Lust is the most important ingredient that could determine your final product. Is there such thing as "Love at first site"?. Do you Lust or fall in Love first?

Access to your partner's cellphone

Relationships have been destroyed and marriages have been broken by this piece of technology called a "Cellphone". We try to keep up with the latest technology but that does not mean we have to sacrifice our relationships with our loved ones. Wether in a relationship or not, each individual deserves their space of privacy. When you switch your phone on it requires a PIN which stands for Personal Identification Number, so that means it is up to an individual to disclose or not to disclose the information. This boils down to the level of communication and trust in the relationship, if your partner does not ask to go through your cellphone, answer it when it rings or let alone read your sms, do you feel you have the right to go thruogh his/her cellphone? If yes why would you want to do that? Is it lack of trust or doing it out of curiosity? Would you get angry if he/she refuses to let you go though his/her phone?

Young Men with Older Women...

It all starts as a "Like" then develops into a "Crush" then the next thing you know you are in "Love". You start enjoying each other's company, next thing you know you cannot get enough of each other so much that the age gap does not matter anymore. Older women can be fun and very open minded while a young men brings back the spark and brings the best out the older women. How the two would get along depends on the level of maturity and respect, that is when age does not play a role and that's if the whole relationship is not based on sex, money or material things. Is it culture or environmet(society) that makes it wrong for a young man to be with an older woman?. As an woman going for a young man what would count most, Romance or Sex?. As a young man do you go for the Money, Sex or Experiance? Does age really matter?

Women in "Tights" at the office

Women nowadays wear Tights to work. It is a Fashion Trend that is picking up in the Corporate world. Colour co-ordinating and dressing them up is a mission for other women, some tend to dress up like the are going to clean the house/apartments and not with plan to go in the public eye. I really like women in tights but how you dress them up plays a big role as how the public will potray you. Question: "What do you wear with it and how do you make it look Professional?". Is it appropriate to wear them to an Executive meeting?